there's something about prawns in HK

Ok.. this sound very trivial or crazy. I'm sure u guys eat de-shelled
prawns right? Generally, we would de-shelled and remove the veins (or
i like to call intestines :p) by cutting slightly on the outer rim of
the prawns and then pull them out. FYI, i find prawns with those stuff
tasty bad.. For some, the cut is also to let the cooked prawns look
like flowers, nicely presented on the plates.. something like this..

But hor.. HK prawns' intestines are inner side (aka where the 'legs' are). I cooked prawns twice and it is the same for both times. Weird right? Does prawns' intestines' location differ from region? Anyway my prawns don't look nice after they r cooked unless i want to double cut aka inner n outer rims. :p

ps: there's something weird about my posting via email.. not working leh. my post after the pic disappear...

words and advices...

I think people need to talk, the only difference is the frequency. It can be more for chatter-box like me or simply golden mouth's rare opening for some. And when people talk, they need audience, at least to listen, and hopefully the conversation can be two-way.

Now, who u speak to depends greatly on what feedback/things u want to hear. Like if u want some religious advices, u speak to pastors or your christian friends, if u need parental advice, u speak to mums/dads (so i try not to give too much advice on kids' stuff since i was only a nanny's helper for few yrs), if u need BGR advices, u speak to your closest friends. What u seek is their expertise and hopefully some biased opinions that make u feel better (come on.. who would ask for a lecture??)

So when someone, who is facing a marriage crisis, actually speak about her problems to another guy who was, at that time, going through a separation himself. Well, logically, he is a gd person cos noone else is facing the same issue as her. On the other hand, I can't help but feel she's just looking for affirmation to also go for separate herself and some other reasons, which i now know, she was actually kinda developing feelings for this guy. It could just be a trigger cos the r/ship is not working and distraction do happen most frequently during such periods.

Now, fast forward couple of yrs.. this gal, she stays on in her marriage and life is gd, couple is happy. She recently got to know some new and nice cols and she's asked by one of them, guy who is quite cute and attractive to her, why she married and if she know that the hubby is the one for her.. Her reply is "i don't know".

Paused.. Is she being honest and just speak her mind? Or is she looking for some affirmation decision to her r/ship again? Is that cute guy another trigger point? Or the gal just love seeking for excitement and will never be satisfied with her life partner, no matter who? What message is that cute guy sending if he just smiles and continue to be nice and bubbly to her? Same same? and.. what advise should i give to the gal and the hubby?